Books

I feel a bit overwhelmed at the moment, not just about home stuff but everything. This situation makes me question everything. I read a book a while back about going from single person to 'step mum'. I found it helpful but think I need to find some more books to read to give me some insights and helpful hints on being a good role model.

Being the better person

Things are going ok at the moment but I am struggling to keep my cool at times. I think part of if is that I'm still not feeling well but I'm just a bit impatient. I'm still struggling with what my role is with these children that aren't mine. I made a committment to my partner that I would our relationship and therefore his children very seriously. I see it as a responsibilty and it annoys me that some people question this.

I don't know why I care what people think. Sometimes I feel I'm damned if I do and damned if I don't! Sorry just feel flat today

Not #1

I have a question for all the step mums out there and those women dating men with children from a previous relationship...how do you get used to/accept that you aren't number one in your partners life? It was more difficult at the beginning cause in a new relationship you want to feel like the only person in each others world.I have accepted my role but the last few days I've felt like chucking a tanti to be noticed!! Sounds so childish I know but it's easy to get wrapped up in the moment when we crave affection and attention.